I’ve come across questions such as what to give to a lesbian friend or partner that will not cause stir from whoever sees it. I totally get this because I’ve seen lesbian statement shirts that were too aggressive and some actually get bad beatings because of its offensive message.
What I really suggest is give your lesbian friend or partner a meaningful and beautifully handcrafted lesbian sculpture. It’s guaranteed to get lots of ohhhs and aaahhhs from people who sees it and touches it. I know because I always get that reaction from my visitors at home 
interestingly, the same for gay couple. Check out this sculpture for gaymen- perfect gift for gay couple or for your gay friend.
Thanks!